After 12 years of marriage, a child, and a house. Five years ago my ex-husband called me to tell he that he wasn't coming home. We desperately need help. I have been performing a juggling act during this time trying to get us to the point that we don't "need" the child support. Especially since it will be ending in two years. Now, my financial juggling act is failing, especially since I had to have surgery. My daughter and I help and fast, before we loose everything. Please, someone help us!